A lot of guys fail miserably in seducing the woman of their choice simply because, in most casesthey're going after the wrong type of girl completely. You see, from a human psychology perspective, we are most compatible with only certain personality "types," and they are known as our personality matches. Now, what do we mean by "personality match?"

It is easy to think that this word, "match" means that you are best suited to a woman who has EXACTLY THE SAME personality as you. But you would be wrong according to the psychologists. Ever heard the statement "opposites attract?" Well, this is really where it comes from. And as a man, your personality match is the woman whose personality type is exactly OPPOSITE to yours on something known as the "personality profile." Let me explain the 4 basic types of personalities which make up this personality profile:

The Queen: This is a girl who is naturally an introvert, kind of likes keeping to herself. A bit on the quiet side. Other character traits of the queen include: she's caring, always trying to keep the peace and please everyone. Lots of conscience, very sensitive. And she's very logical and organised, doesn't like to take too many risks in her life. She might be involved in careers such as accounting and medicine.

The Warrior: The only thing this girl has in common with the queen is that she is also very logical and methodical in their approach to life. But on the other hand, she is not as sensitive. She believes in fighting hard battles like the name "Warrior" suggests. You'll find a lot of warriors are probably involved in highly competitive sports. She's ruthlessly ambitious and will stop at nothing to get what she wants in life. Some warriors might be entrepreneurs or very highly efficient workers like law enforcement officers.

The Lover : These girls are very creative. They are a bit on the quiet side like the queen. She's most likely a dreamer, very philosophical and tends to be drawn to activities like wring poetry, painting and music. She's very laid back and has a rather romantic view of the world. On the other hand she can be very dis-organised, with her thoughts all over the place, she's not very logical, unlike the queen.

The Magician : These girls always want to be the center of attention. She's very loud, and will tend to be a natural exhibitionist. She will always be the life and soul of the party. You'll find that she has a natural liking for careers like pop music and acting, anything which will feed her need for constant attention in society.

Now, these personality types apply to men as well, so to know which group you belong to, just see which characteristics best describe you. So for example if you are very logical and sensitive, you'd be a King (which is exactly the same as the queen). But as I said earlier, in terms of sexual compatibility, your personality match is that woman who is the DIRECT OPPOSITE personality type to you. So for example if you're a King in personality, your direct opposite is the Magician, if you're a Warrior, your opposite is the Lover.

And if you find this "opposite" girl, you are likely to feel deeply attracted to each other and even in some cases, feel the chemical reaction known as "love." In other words, you are likely to experience a strong physical and spiritual attraction towards your female opposite.

You will also find that being with this person feels like you have discovered the missing part of yourself. And it will be much easier for you to seduce this type of girl because there is already this strong, natural and biological connection between you. But if you go for girls who are either the same personality as you or not exactly opposite to you, (for example a Warrior with a King) you'll find it much more difficult to attract and seduce her because the connection is missing. So bear this in mind when meeting women you want to date and seduce and you'll be pleasantly surprised what a HUGE difference it will make.